Sometimes I miss the life before the children came. Freedom, go where you want to go, do what you want to do. But after having children, even sometimes I have the opportunity to go out have some fun. But I can’t be totally relaxed, I am always thinking about going back home early, maybe the children are waiting at home.
Now a lot of couples choose not having the children, I do not think that is correct or wrong choice. Everyone has the right to decide their life. Today I don’t want to say how wonderful having the children in your life. But the joy that a child growing up is something you have never seen before.
I remember when my first child was about 3 months old. When I got up at midnight to feed him milk. After he drank, I went to the bathroom. When I back to the bedroom, I found that he was not asleep, two small eyes stared at me. But just the moment he saw me back, he closed his eyes and fell asleep right away. At that time he was so small, couldn’t speak. But he had been waiting for me until I came back, until confirmed that I was ok. Until now, I still feel very moved, so small infant, but has been concerned about someone.
The child’s growth is really fast, so if the child is a little bit sticky around you. Then just let him and let you enjoy this short intimate period. The first year of my oldest child, he must lie on my arm to fall asleep each nap. And the little guy was very sensitive. As long as I put him back on the bed after he fell asleep, he immediately woke up. But as long as he’s on my arm, no matter how I shake him, he’s still sleeping.
So many times when the children are about to drive me crazy, I will try to calm myself, tell myself that thinking of the close time between we parents and children to accompany is just a dozen years. So I will learn how to be more patient, let us get along well.