Having the children being a mom changed my life totally. No matter how free how crazy you are, you will never be the same after being a parent. Don’t say a long trip, even within three feet of the ground is more difficult to go than ever before because of having the children. Today I want to share a story that I need to go out but the children stick with me, don’t let me go.
One morning after breakfast, I need to go to the bank to do something. I already asked children’s grandmother to help taking care of the children while I am away. Everything was going well, just as I was about to get my bag put on my shoes, the old child was standing in front of me. I explained that I was going out to work, it’s far. It is not downstairs in the neighborhood. The little guy still insist on following together.
I tried to play his favorite cartoon, his favorite snacks, buying him his favorite chocolate. The little guy is very insistent, hold out “I don’t want to eat snacks, I don’t want to watch cartoons, I want to go with you.” “Well, Ok, we go out together!”
While I help him changing his clothes, I explained to him again where I was going. What I need to do is to go to the bank, the bank has no toys, no slides. And the waiting time may be very long. You have to be patient and quiet and we can’t go anywhere else. Are you sure you still want to go? Or stay at home watching cartoons and playing with your brother?The little guy thinks about two seconds. I’ll stay at home! All right, mom will be back in a while.I’ll bring you and little brother hamburger from McDonald’s, ok? Well, the little boy went out to play with his little brother happily!
So I can be at ease to go out and they stay at home happily. Even though they are small children, but communicate with them like a adult, explain it, describe it, and they will understand it!